बदलाव : Change

एक राजा था। वह अपनी बेटी से बेइंतहा प्यार करता था, उसकी हर इच्छा पूरी करता था। लेकिन बेटी को कभी महल के बाहर नहीं जाने देता था। बेटी महल के बाहर की दुनिया से अपरिचित थी। एक दिन बेटी ने शहर देखने की इच्छा जताई। राजा के मना करने पर बेटी रूठ गई। राजा चिंता में पड़ गए। फूल-सी बेटी, कभी पैदल ज़्यादा चली नहीं। महल की नर्म चटाइयों पर रहने वाले कोमल पैर पथरीली सड़कों पर कैसे चलेंगे? उस समय न तो आज जैसी कोई पक्की सड़क थी, न ही जूतों का जनम हुआ था। क्या किया जाए? सोच-विचार के बाद राजा ने मंत्रियों को आदेश दिया की पूरी शहर की गलियों पर चमड़े की चादर बिछा दी जाए, ताकि राजकुमारी को चलने में तकलीफ़ न हो। तभी एक दरबारी ने सुझाव दिया कि सारे शहर में चमड़ा बिछाने के बजाय क्यों न राजकुमारी के पैरों में चमड़ा पहना दिया जाए। इससे राजकुमारी के पैर भी सुरक्षित रहेंगे और काम भी आसान हो जाएगा। बात बड़ी सरल और तर्कपूर्ण है। दुनिया भर को अपने अनुकूल करने से बेहतर व आसान है निजी बदलाव। सुनते हैं तभी से जूते पहनने का चलन शुरू हुआ।

New Year Revolution !

Most of us are waiting for New Year to have more beautiful life .

On End day of current Year & in starting weeks of each year , I always promise many thing with myself.

I take oath that I will change my habits(Whatever I feel Bad about me :)).

This happen every year .

Each year I promise that I will be more active , will achieve something worth full.

And all this is lost , In the end of year I am at the same place where I was at start :(  .

As far as I remember , I only have fulfilled only 2-3 promise with me from last many years .

Somewhere , there is a lack of will power , lack of determination .

Each Promise start with full energy , with full motivation , but actually lost after short time(varies from days to week usually) .

Something is missing there , I do not know why it happen ?
The process repeat again & again , each year .

I will not say that I hope this year this will not happen , I will be determined for that not to be happen.

At least for this year the situation will not come.

I feel being open to public will keep me doing what I want .

At last wishing each of my friend to have a Great Happy New year !

The Monkey King

 

Sometime back there was a revolution in Jungle .From the ancient time , all the animal were hearing that the Lion is the king, Lion is the King of Jungle. So They decide that Other should also get a chance to Rule .They want Democracy to come in Jungle .

Meeting started & many of them nominated for Being a King by there supporters.

Finally it was decided by the voting that Monkey will be the new King of Jungle.

The Lion has Left the post .The ceremony was held & the monkey became the new King.

Every animal was happy, as the Democracy came.

Time was passing slowly --

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One Day the Lion captured a Goat child, & was pulling him toward his caves.

The Goat was afraid; the goat rushed to his new King, and prays, "My Lord Save my child”.

The Monkey started looking here & there.

The Goat again says, My Lord, please save my child.

The monkey started running fast near the lion caves, up and down on the tree from one branch to another.

After some time the Goat again urge, my Lord what are you doing, plz, plzzz save my child.

The Monkey says “ is there any issue in my effort, you are putting a question on me?”.

The Goat says, no My Lord , you are our King , you should save my child !

The Monkey Became angry & says ,"listen , is there any problem in our effort, I am doing my best effort to save your child , If after that your baby can not be saved what can I do ?"

The issue with the goat is that she thinks a monkey can save her from Lion? Many times it happen we play the Role of monkey doing things with less capability, Many times we are in place of Goat expecting the Monkey to save us from Lion.

The Question is not that what a Lion should do? Question is if a Monkey will be the king what will happen?

For Ruling the Jungle, a monkey should have capability like a Lion, while in case of goat she should analyze to whom it was urging.

To solve any problem, the capability is required.

Other important issue is that we are seeking help , it should be understood first that A monkey can never fight from Lion :).

Double Standard

You will always meet the people , who complain about there boss ,there company , the current system etc .

In corporate , people feels like there management treat them as a resource , as a productive tool to whom they do not care , to whom they want to extract as much they can .

In simple word they feel that for management /company they are only the resource like machine, not as living being ,who has his own identity and there ultimate goal is to utilize them .

People feels like they are being ruled & not well treated .

Its the case with in general life also , like go to a police station,railway booking office, go to a government office for your work ,or go to an outstation ,many feels that each one is trying to realize you that you are inferior than them until unless they have to take money from you .

Going more general , People are driving on the road , the different segment of commuters who travels by BUS ,Car ,Bikes ,Auto etc always abuse other is responsible for traffic violation & accident always occur because of negligence of others .

Even most of them have gone through the each stage, in different time ,they all complain.

Once there living standard change , they think that there lower or upper class is responsible for the problem , they never think that they are the part of the same system , and some time cause of the problem also ,to which they are abusing .

As a social person we are always in a class ,some are above us while some are below us . We are the worker for some , giving services to them  , while some are worker for us who is giving service to us.

If we are complaining to the people we should  also think , how we treat  others who are below us ,to whom we never think that they are human being.

If we are feels other as objects to whom we are using ,then thinking of others is also justifiable .

Thoughts , Thinking and Worry

 

Most of us feel that some thing is missing from there life.

But no one dare to think ,what is the problem beneath ,They just want to cover it ,Want to wrap it in some dark cover so that it should be invisible .

For a short moment this technique work but in long run it never succeed .Again after some time the same problem came in front of us in some different form.

Actually no one want to think about this because if they try to think they are in trap of Worry & once the Worry start it goes to long time . Due to Worry , there is more disturbance in life than earlier , So people always want to skip the process .

They feel  once they start thinking they are in much problem , so why to think ?

Then there are people who tell , Follow them , & be free from worry .

They tell us , do not think go and enjoy life , we will think for you ,you have to enjoy , you are here to enjoy ,you just earn , pay them & they will do the rest for you ,They promise to make you free from worry .That is all insurance companies will advise you . They promise to secure your future .

Again the Saints , & Preachers , Self proclaimed Godman , will promise you to follow them ,”If you will follow them they will make your future joy-able , as well as your future afterlife also joy- able ”

How funny the things are , one side is materialistic ,   who claim to make your future wealthy , The other is going one step ahead , giving you guarantee for your after death life(No one is sure if there  any ?)

Most interesting is that , each of them laugh on other ,saying that other is fool .

They will never tell you , here are the option , select any one if you want , if you do not want , do not select ,There may be other option , but they never say like this , because being other option means there is Scope to think , & once you start think , its a danger for them .

So they will project in front of you like that if you will think , you will worry , do not think  ,do not worry .

But the people who never think is also worried .

The missing part is that we never differentiate the Worry & Thinking .We think both are same .

When the thoughts are constructive , It focus to Thinking , it result in construction , it comes  out as creativity .

But if the thoughts turn to negative direction , it became burden , it became destructive & harmful .It became worry .

The difference line is very thin ,Deep Thinking  will result in “Joy”  if it is positive , and result in “Tension” if negative .

Being afraid of Tension , One should not stop the thinking .

Its like that , being afraid of Aircraft accident , we always travel in bullock cart , because bullock cart is having less life threat .

Because there is thinking , therefore the  so much progress .

Being afraid from worry , we escape the thinking process , and there are people to help us in this , who says that yes you are right , do not think , just follow .

3 Hour Inspiration

 

Many times it happen , we are inspired by the things or events . We see some movie or read some news , or meet a person & then we think ,  Yes that is what we always have been thinking ! He is saying right . We should act like his advice or behave like that only.

Again some time later in the life that we see the opposite things and feel , this time what the person is saying is also right previous one was wrong , & we think that we should follow that .

Either or not we think to follow but we are inspired by that .

let us take a example , of  the movie “ Three Idiotos “ .

When the movie start , the professor(Boman Irani) came & tell so many things about the life , so much hard sentence & suddenly viewers think that yes he is saying right , life is race , when he proves the example by the Birds egg , then most of us think that life is race , & we should be winner . He was saying right . He proved the so much know theory of Darwin , “survival of the best “ . It tell that we should do all things wrong or right .

Again after some time , the plots change & Aamir khan change whole view , He emphasized that  life is not a race , it is not becoming the first or second , it is in being best what you can do .Finally user agree with him also .

I am not favoring any one here , and will not try to justify who is Wrong & who is Right.

Just Think , Only in three hour drama(3 hour of real life) , & so much change in thoughts . If the character on the screen can change our emotion , our thoughts in small time , then how we are being affected by the people/environment  around us .

Coming  next , Initially people thinks that something is right , after some event they think that some other thing is right?

This happen because we see only one part at a time , we compare both the thing with logic , & Logic is always true or false , & therefore we are agree with one thing & after some time with other.

If at a given time , we can see both the people arguing , both the person discussing then its quite possible that we can get better decision .

But the issue is that if wee see both  together than how the drama will continue?

The same things happen in the real life also .We feel & follow what we hear & see . So when some one says that we should company the good environment , good people (Here good may differ for every one), it has some genuine reason ,because your company decides your thoughts  .And your thoughts decide your destiny when followed by the  Action .

Marx Poem

Read some where the Hindi translation of very interesting poem of Marx .So many year back I have read the poem in a hindi magazine but every time when I read it I feel it is new & inspire me always.

I am not a communist or supporter of Marx but his view of thinking is amazing .I like this poem most thats why posting it here .

कठिनाइयों से रीता जीवन
मेरे लिए नहीं,
नहीं, मेरे तूफानी मन को यह स्‍वीकार नहीं।
मुझे तो चाहिए एक महान ऊंचा लक्ष्‍य
और उसके लिए उम्र भर संघर्षों का अटूट क्रम।
ओ कला! तू खोल
मानवता की धरोहर, अपने अमूल्‍य कोषों के द्वार
मेरे लिए खोल!
अपनी प्रज्ञा और संवेगों के आलिंगन में
अखिल विश्‍व को बांध लूंगा मैं!
आओ,
हम बीहड़ और कठिन सुदूर यात्रा पर चलें
आओ, क्‍योंकि -
छिछला, निरुद्देश्‍य और लक्ष्‍यहीन जीवन
हमें स्‍वीकार नहीं।
हम, ऊंघते कलम घिसते हुए
उत्‍पीड़न और लाचारी में नहीं जियेंगे।
हम - आकांक्षा, आक्रोश, आवेग, और
अभिमान में जियेंगे!
असली इन्‍सान की तरह जियेंगे