Focus

I do not remember exactly the name but some one told long ago that all the explanation is the revision of the knowledge of the past.

It what all the godman are doing , all the books of self development are  explaining .They just promote the same thing with new cover .Our views are the output of what we receive from the outside world .

I will just tell  a little story here .I heard a long back ,  from my teacher.

Some people were going with a new, very good condition, Car in a village  ,suddenly the Car stuck in mud .  The driver tried his best , but he was not successful to take the car out from the mud .So he requested to all the passenger to push up the car .Some passenger are not willing for this ,they thought this was a below standard . But they has no option .So all the 8 people come out from the car & start pushing the Car .

The driver tried again , but after so many attempt the Car did not moved an inch .So he came out to see what others are doing ………..

He saw every one was trying his best , but the only problem was that they all were trying in different direction.

This little story tell how after applying all the forces and doing work in team can not solve the problem.

 

This is the case with us also , many time we think that we have a lot of power ,so much skill & talent etc ..but why our effort is not worthy ,the reason is that all our effort works in different direction . We work hard up to full extent ,but we work in different direction.We are not focused & here the problem start .We apply all the forces in different direction ,

We think some thing different  ,plan something different & do a  new thing .When we start a new work , we do a lot of work together .We  are never focused .

Its is like the rays of sun ,when focused can burn any thing ,but scattered will spread only light .

Extreme in the Life

How the extreme is killing the life.

I read a story somewhere long back that there was a mother who wants to care me for her child & thinks that her baby is safe inside her womb & should not go in outside world as the life outside will be influenced by environment & can kill the baby.

She think that baby is safe in her body & will not be able to adjust in outside.

But as you know it’s simply not possible to kept a baby inside womb after a certain time .In the effect the baby life will be no more the danger to life of women will also come that can take her life also.

The case is very simple, when you are caring for someone too much than required it will definitely harm her/him.

It may the cause of people caring for the children’s, spouse & family.

Also there is other side of this, you can argue if the people will not care for, then a baby cannot grow, in the initial period of life the baby should get protection & nurture from the mother. And also from the family who teach him about the life, save him from the going in wrong company.

But that protection should not be after certain interval of time, else it will simply ruin the life.

We should know the limit, where to stop caring. After a certain time the caring became the interference in the life .The protection became the burden.