Double Standard

You will always meet the people , who complain about there boss ,there company , the current system etc .

In corporate , people feels like there management treat them as a resource , as a productive tool to whom they do not care , to whom they want to extract as much they can .

In simple word they feel that for management /company they are only the resource like machine, not as living being ,who has his own identity and there ultimate goal is to utilize them .

People feels like they are being ruled & not well treated .

Its the case with in general life also , like go to a police station,railway booking office, go to a government office for your work ,or go to an outstation ,many feels that each one is trying to realize you that you are inferior than them until unless they have to take money from you .

Going more general , People are driving on the road , the different segment of commuters who travels by BUS ,Car ,Bikes ,Auto etc always abuse other is responsible for traffic violation & accident always occur because of negligence of others .

Even most of them have gone through the each stage, in different time ,they all complain.

Once there living standard change , they think that there lower or upper class is responsible for the problem , they never think that they are the part of the same system , and some time cause of the problem also ,to which they are abusing .

As a social person we are always in a class ,some are above us while some are below us . We are the worker for some , giving services to them  , while some are worker for us who is giving service to us.

If we are complaining to the people we should  also think , how we treat  others who are below us ,to whom we never think that they are human being.

If we are feels other as objects to whom we are using ,then thinking of others is also justifiable .

Thoughts , Thinking and Worry

 

Most of us feel that some thing is missing from there life.

But no one dare to think ,what is the problem beneath ,They just want to cover it ,Want to wrap it in some dark cover so that it should be invisible .

For a short moment this technique work but in long run it never succeed .Again after some time the same problem came in front of us in some different form.

Actually no one want to think about this because if they try to think they are in trap of Worry & once the Worry start it goes to long time . Due to Worry , there is more disturbance in life than earlier , So people always want to skip the process .

They feel  once they start thinking they are in much problem , so why to think ?

Then there are people who tell , Follow them , & be free from worry .

They tell us , do not think go and enjoy life , we will think for you ,you have to enjoy , you are here to enjoy ,you just earn , pay them & they will do the rest for you ,They promise to make you free from worry .That is all insurance companies will advise you . They promise to secure your future .

Again the Saints , & Preachers , Self proclaimed Godman , will promise you to follow them ,”If you will follow them they will make your future joy-able , as well as your future afterlife also joy- able ”

How funny the things are , one side is materialistic ,   who claim to make your future wealthy , The other is going one step ahead , giving you guarantee for your after death life(No one is sure if there  any ?)

Most interesting is that , each of them laugh on other ,saying that other is fool .

They will never tell you , here are the option , select any one if you want , if you do not want , do not select ,There may be other option , but they never say like this , because being other option means there is Scope to think , & once you start think , its a danger for them .

So they will project in front of you like that if you will think , you will worry , do not think  ,do not worry .

But the people who never think is also worried .

The missing part is that we never differentiate the Worry & Thinking .We think both are same .

When the thoughts are constructive , It focus to Thinking , it result in construction , it comes  out as creativity .

But if the thoughts turn to negative direction , it became burden , it became destructive & harmful .It became worry .

The difference line is very thin ,Deep Thinking  will result in “Joy”  if it is positive , and result in “Tension” if negative .

Being afraid of Tension , One should not stop the thinking .

Its like that , being afraid of Aircraft accident , we always travel in bullock cart , because bullock cart is having less life threat .

Because there is thinking , therefore the  so much progress .

Being afraid from worry , we escape the thinking process , and there are people to help us in this , who says that yes you are right , do not think , just follow .